Rather, if you know where you need love and where and how you should express it, this will make you a more dynamic, powerful person!
Here are my results and some of my own thoughts on relationships;
A healthy
relationship is one in which a relationship prospers because all the people
involved know how to flow in love and interaction with eachother. People do not
get easily upset with eachother because they are full of the love of God. Thus,
any hurtful word or action that might be done to the other person simply rolls
off their back like a duck. They are secure in their relationships and love can
flow freely between them. In a secure
relationship, people are able to express their opinions and feelings with
eachother without offending one another.
In a secure and Godly
relationship, not only are people able to interact freely and share their
feelings freely with eachother, but secure people with a love for God are not
shaken as easily by outward circumstances which might otherwise negatively
affect an insecure/lost person. For
instance, a secure spouse can handle her/his children screaming, the demand of
bills to be paid, and the pressures of living with another person with different
habits, and not cave in under the pressure. Her love for God gives her a security and a
sense of being loved and valued that is not affected by circumstances. A secure
relationship is when two or more groups of people know how to connect with one
another in a genuine manner despite the stress of everyday life. They apply God’s
love to their relationships through forgiveness, speaking truth, and offering grace.
From
Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages Website
My love languages were ranked:
4. Receiving Gifts
5.
Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch
5. Words of Affirmation
11. Quality Time
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