What would you say your new year's resolution is? Many people come out with all kinds of resolutions. I recently read in the New York Times website that some of the top New years resolutions are, "I'm going to lose weight", I'm going to stop smoking, I'm going to get physically fit"and "I'm going to stop drinking". What about coming up with a resolution that is completely different than anything you have ever thought of? Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying all the resolutions are trivial and unimportant. I believe these are all great resolutions. However notice they all share one thing in common, "I'm". As humans, we have no pupose in this life outside of how we influence and impact others.
Just think about it; A life completely devoted to serving yourself. That would give no satisfaction whatsoever. We are relational beings, designed to relate to and serve others. This is why God created two people, not just one. We must give advice, and help to others in order for others to thrive and and likewise we must depend on others to gain this same fulfillment.
An old chinese proverb says, "If you want happiness for an hour -- take a nap. If you want happiness for a day -- go fishing. If you want happiness for a month -- get married. If you want happiness for a year -- inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime -- help someone else."
All these things listed give you only temporary satisfaction. Why not focus your efforts on how you can improve others' lives?
I know for me, only when I am pouring into others' lives just a little nugget of the hope I have in Jesus Christ do I really have any fulfillment.
I encourage you to find people you can impact in a positive way. More importantly, I challenge you to allow Jesus Christ to transform your life like He did mine.
Romans 10:9 says, "That if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart the Lord Jesus, you will be saved." Then Romans 10:11 says, "For whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved." It doesn't say you will be saved if you're a good enough person or if you have not committed a certain amount of sins. No the Bible says, "WHOEVER calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved"
Get this! Then once you have been accepted by Christ because you have placed your faith in Him and believed, Romans 8:1 says, "There is no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus." You will live a life free of condemnation and shame, because Jesus Christ has transformed your life!
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Friday, December 23, 2011
Be Careful What You Believe
Before I dive into the heart of the matter, let me explain a little of short story from my past.
When I was in the hospital and in the coma for 40 days there were many negative words spoken over me. Yet, however my family and friends would rush into the room right after these negative words were spoken and proclaim the Truth of what God said. (Remember, life and death are in the tongue)
After 40 days, despite what every doctor in the hospital said, I came out of the coma.
Later, when I was in therapy in inpatient rehab, my physical therapist told me as a sat in a wheel chair, "You will walk again, with time." This was a truth and I believed it, and I was able to walk. I then determined in my heart that I would walk out of Charlotte Rehab, without a cane. I told this to my therapist, and she said, "Ok, you can walk out of here without a cane, but it will take some work on your part." I heard this and thought, "Ok I am going to work as hard as I can, and I will walk out of here without a cane." I worked hard and walked out with no cane!
(Remember: life and death are in the power of the tongue).
I then got home and after a while I went to another physical therapist, and I told him that I wanted to run again on my cross country team. He then told me I would be able to run but it would take some hard, sometimes painful work on my part. I heard this and determined in my heart that I would do whatever it took to run again, and I was able to join the cross country team that fall.
You might be wondering why am I telling you this, but the point I'm trying to make is our words are powerful! Many of you hear a professional doctor, phsychologist, therapist, parent, or even a friend tell us something and we listen to that word and think,"Oh well, this is as far as I will ever go", or "Oh well I am going home to die in three months", but you never realize those are mere words. Listen, my famliy was told I would not make it through the night, but I sit typing this today, a young man who runs and is in college.
James 3:5-6 says, "Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest, a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature and is set on fire by hell."
What lies are you believing today that someone has told you that has caused you to lose hope? What bad report are you believing today that is causing you to live in depression,fear, and hopelessness?
Why not believe what God says. In Matthew 19:26 Jesus said, "With God, all things are possible."
Paul said, "You are healed by the blood of Jesus Christ."
You see, my family didn't listen to the negative reports of the doctors that I would die, because they knew that God said I could be healed if they would believe. Now if they had listened to what the doctors said and lost hope, I probably would have ended up much worse.
If I hadn't had therapists, pastors, and friends tell me I could walk again and then run again, I probably would still be in a wheelchair.
You might have heard somebody tell you something terrible and you have decided that is truth, and there's nothing you can do.
I have news for you! With God, all things are possible! Give him your life today in belief and repentance of your sins and believe you can cross every mountain and face every challenge you face with His strength.
Doctors don't have all the answers, but my Heavenly Father does.
When I was in the hospital and in the coma for 40 days there were many negative words spoken over me. Yet, however my family and friends would rush into the room right after these negative words were spoken and proclaim the Truth of what God said. (Remember, life and death are in the tongue)
After 40 days, despite what every doctor in the hospital said, I came out of the coma.
Later, when I was in therapy in inpatient rehab, my physical therapist told me as a sat in a wheel chair, "You will walk again, with time." This was a truth and I believed it, and I was able to walk. I then determined in my heart that I would walk out of Charlotte Rehab, without a cane. I told this to my therapist, and she said, "Ok, you can walk out of here without a cane, but it will take some work on your part." I heard this and thought, "Ok I am going to work as hard as I can, and I will walk out of here without a cane." I worked hard and walked out with no cane!
(Remember: life and death are in the power of the tongue).
I then got home and after a while I went to another physical therapist, and I told him that I wanted to run again on my cross country team. He then told me I would be able to run but it would take some hard, sometimes painful work on my part. I heard this and determined in my heart that I would do whatever it took to run again, and I was able to join the cross country team that fall.
You might be wondering why am I telling you this, but the point I'm trying to make is our words are powerful! Many of you hear a professional doctor, phsychologist, therapist, parent, or even a friend tell us something and we listen to that word and think,"Oh well, this is as far as I will ever go", or "Oh well I am going home to die in three months", but you never realize those are mere words. Listen, my famliy was told I would not make it through the night, but I sit typing this today, a young man who runs and is in college.
James 3:5-6 says, "Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest, a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature and is set on fire by hell."
What lies are you believing today that someone has told you that has caused you to lose hope? What bad report are you believing today that is causing you to live in depression,fear, and hopelessness?
Why not believe what God says. In Matthew 19:26 Jesus said, "With God, all things are possible."
Paul said, "You are healed by the blood of Jesus Christ."
You see, my family didn't listen to the negative reports of the doctors that I would die, because they knew that God said I could be healed if they would believe. Now if they had listened to what the doctors said and lost hope, I probably would have ended up much worse.
If I hadn't had therapists, pastors, and friends tell me I could walk again and then run again, I probably would still be in a wheelchair.
You might have heard somebody tell you something terrible and you have decided that is truth, and there's nothing you can do.
I have news for you! With God, all things are possible! Give him your life today in belief and repentance of your sins and believe you can cross every mountain and face every challenge you face with His strength.
Doctors don't have all the answers, but my Heavenly Father does.
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Experiences and Passion
I would say three of the most important things for just about anybody and more so for a tbi survivor, stroke survivor, or any kind of a survivor of any traumatic event, is number 1 focus on staying passionate and doing the things one is passionate about. Number two, is make sure you are venturing out and coming across new experiences. Number three, probably my favorite, is always treat others in the correct way and always handle the problems which might arise from what others nmight do, in the appropriate way.
As individuals, each of us need something we are passionate about. This will give excitement, fulfillment, and a sense of being accomplished, to our lives. Not to mention this will promote brain activity and help us to fight depression. We were created to be passionate people, not boring, humorless people who do nothing to benefit others and ourselves.
Always treat others with respect and acceptance, no matter what. When others do things that might hurt you or make you feel criticized, don't hold that hurt inside your heart. You must get it out by talking it through with somebody and forgiving that person who hurt/offended you. I guarantee you that that initial pain of that hurt you felt from that person will fester and will only get worse and cause you to have problems with other people in your life. Numerous clinical studies have proven this, including those done by author and Counselor Henry Cloud and numerous others.
Always seek to diversify your life with new experiences which will give you joy and add excitement to your life. This is truly one of the best therapies for anybody. This helps get your focus off your present circumstance and unto something more joyful and pleasant. Successful people never did the same thing day in and day out. New experiences gives you the opportunity to meet new people and interact with new people, establish new relationships and have so much more to talk about.
For me, I have found my passion to be helping others and spreading the message of what God has done in my life. My passions are Jesus Christ and also running, working out, meeting new people, and nutrition. I will tell you my greatest passion is Christ and what He has done in my life, there is nothing like an eternal relationship with Jesus Christ, the creator of this universe who has redeemed me and set me free from a life of sin and hopelessness. I challenge you to email me about the Savior who has transformed my life and will change your life forever! williamb374@msn.com.
The others I interact with are my friends, church members, family members, professors, and all the people I travel around and speak to. The most important Other person in my life is Jesus Christ. Who are your others?
Do you know Jesus?
I love new experiences. I always strive to diversify my life with new experiences by going to new places and meeting new people. It's one of my Passions. What are some of your new experiences? I challenge you to diversify your life with new experiences>
As individuals, each of us need something we are passionate about. This will give excitement, fulfillment, and a sense of being accomplished, to our lives. Not to mention this will promote brain activity and help us to fight depression. We were created to be passionate people, not boring, humorless people who do nothing to benefit others and ourselves.
Always treat others with respect and acceptance, no matter what. When others do things that might hurt you or make you feel criticized, don't hold that hurt inside your heart. You must get it out by talking it through with somebody and forgiving that person who hurt/offended you. I guarantee you that that initial pain of that hurt you felt from that person will fester and will only get worse and cause you to have problems with other people in your life. Numerous clinical studies have proven this, including those done by author and Counselor Henry Cloud and numerous others.
Always seek to diversify your life with new experiences which will give you joy and add excitement to your life. This is truly one of the best therapies for anybody. This helps get your focus off your present circumstance and unto something more joyful and pleasant. Successful people never did the same thing day in and day out. New experiences gives you the opportunity to meet new people and interact with new people, establish new relationships and have so much more to talk about.
For me, I have found my passion to be helping others and spreading the message of what God has done in my life. My passions are Jesus Christ and also running, working out, meeting new people, and nutrition. I will tell you my greatest passion is Christ and what He has done in my life, there is nothing like an eternal relationship with Jesus Christ, the creator of this universe who has redeemed me and set me free from a life of sin and hopelessness. I challenge you to email me about the Savior who has transformed my life and will change your life forever! williamb374@msn.com.
The others I interact with are my friends, church members, family members, professors, and all the people I travel around and speak to. The most important Other person in my life is Jesus Christ. Who are your others?
Do you know Jesus?
I love new experiences. I always strive to diversify my life with new experiences by going to new places and meeting new people. It's one of my Passions. What are some of your new experiences? I challenge you to diversify your life with new experiences>
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
How are you giving back? Do you feel like you're making a difference in the lives of others...Heres a way
http://www.facebook.com/hungryforachange 5 million children die each year of starvation. Your purpose on this planet is to benefit Other's lives. Here is a way you can benefit others' lives.
Don't just live to please yourself. Live so that others might benefit. Go to this website and see how you can impact as many a few starving orphans' lives.
Don't just live to please yourself. Live so that others might benefit. Go to this website and see how you can impact as many a few starving orphans' lives.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
The architect of your own destiny
I read a quote the other day that said something like this, "If you want to tell your son how to live, tell him, "You are the architect of your own destiny. That whatever you find to do in life, if you want to succeed, it will take persistence, dedication, and a fighting spirit."
I think this applies to everybody reading this. Nobody in this life who ever achieved any kind of greatness or invented any kind of new technology or saved any number of peoples' lives ever allowed themselves to fall into halfheartedness.
Anything in this life we are aiming for or trying to achieve cannot be accomplished without a persistent spirit and dedication.
You are the "architect of your own destiny". What are you trying to achieve? What is your next level in life?
We all have a next level to go to whether it is a new physical, social, academic, work-related, or health related. We each can better ourselves.
I encourage you to devote yourself to constructing your destiny with excellence, persistence.
Be in unity with others who will support you and influence you positively in your journey to constuct your destiny.
Maybe you have no clue where to begin or maybe you feel utterly hopeless, like there is nothing you can do to improve your destiny. God's Word says in Romans 10:38 says, "{For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor thiany creature shall be able to seperate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus, our Lord."
Maybe you are seperated from the love of Christ. I encourage you to act now! Romans 10:13 says, "Whosoever shall call on Him, shall be saved." Romans 10:9 says, "That if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that Christ has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Romans 6:23 says, "For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." Act now. I can't tell you enough how short the time is, before Christ comes back for His followers. You are hopeless in your sin. You can accept Christ's gift. Email me at williamb374@msn.com please if you have any questions about this new life you can have in Christ Jesus.
or call me (704)682-8711
I think this applies to everybody reading this. Nobody in this life who ever achieved any kind of greatness or invented any kind of new technology or saved any number of peoples' lives ever allowed themselves to fall into halfheartedness.
Anything in this life we are aiming for or trying to achieve cannot be accomplished without a persistent spirit and dedication.
You are the "architect of your own destiny". What are you trying to achieve? What is your next level in life?
We all have a next level to go to whether it is a new physical, social, academic, work-related, or health related. We each can better ourselves.
I encourage you to devote yourself to constructing your destiny with excellence, persistence.
Be in unity with others who will support you and influence you positively in your journey to constuct your destiny.
Maybe you have no clue where to begin or maybe you feel utterly hopeless, like there is nothing you can do to improve your destiny. God's Word says in Romans 10:38 says, "{For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor thiany creature shall be able to seperate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus, our Lord."
Maybe you are seperated from the love of Christ. I encourage you to act now! Romans 10:13 says, "Whosoever shall call on Him, shall be saved." Romans 10:9 says, "That if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that Christ has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Romans 6:23 says, "For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." Act now. I can't tell you enough how short the time is, before Christ comes back for His followers. You are hopeless in your sin. You can accept Christ's gift. Email me at williamb374@msn.com please if you have any questions about this new life you can have in Christ Jesus.
or call me (704)682-8711
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Leave A Legacy.
Each of us is going to leave an impression on the people we come into contact with. Everyday people are left with a picture of the person you are. You either leave a picture of a sad, downtrodden and hopeless individual or you can leave the picture of somebody who is confident, joyful, and full of life. Which kind of person do you want to be? When we leave this earth (our bodies stop working) people will either talk of how great a person we were or the opposite.
What kind of legacy do you want to leave? I challenge you to change your mindset to a positive,powerful one! Things may knock us down in life. You may get knocked down, but never stay down. Always strive to be a positive, empowering person! I know this isn't always the easiest. Find positive, empowering people you can be in unity with. By being in unity with these uplifting people, you will find yourself adopting their ways! Strive to leave the legacy that positively impacts peoples' lives.
Leave a Legacy people will talk of for years and years.
What kind of legacy do you want to leave? I challenge you to change your mindset to a positive,powerful one! Things may knock us down in life. You may get knocked down, but never stay down. Always strive to be a positive, empowering person! I know this isn't always the easiest. Find positive, empowering people you can be in unity with. By being in unity with these uplifting people, you will find yourself adopting their ways! Strive to leave the legacy that positively impacts peoples' lives.
Leave a Legacy people will talk of for years and years.
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Movement
It's so important if you have a tbi or any kind of medical issue to stay moving. Don't let your mind get lazy. Don't let yourself sit around and do nothing. Stay moving. When you keep your mind stimulated and stay active, you are much less likely to fall into depression or any other kind of mental fatigue or restlessness. Stay focused and don't let your mind become lazy. In my own experience, I have found that the times that I experience the greatest periods of depression or anxiety are during the times when I allow myself to get lazy doing nothing to better myself or anybody else's day. Maybe you can't get up and run or walk, then just sit up and read a book or call somebody to wish them a good day. Don't let your mind fall into complacency; always be active, either trying to brighten someone else's day or improving your own skill in some skill or task. It can be something as small as writing a letter, calling somebody, or walking the dog, or taking a stroll through the neighborhood. The point I'm trying to make is to stay moving mentally or physically or both, which is the better. A great way to do this is take two small dumbells and lift them in the air five times, then curl them five times, then lift them up five times.
Never allow yourself to become too lazy.
I know it can feel so good to sit on the couch for long hours and do nothing but watch TV. Yes we need our rest, but it is so important to keep our minds and/or bodies stimulated in order for us to stay in our purpose P- (passion-stay doing what your passionate about) U-(Stay in unity with others who share your passions) R-(Stay responsible) P.-(Keep thinking and speaking Positive, Empowering Thoughts) O-(Others-always look for ways to benefit others) S-(Do excerscises/activities to help Your Self) E-(Everyday- Keep practicing these principles everyday).
I gaurantee that if you work on not allowing yourself to become lazy and apply these principles of P-U-R-P-O-S-E, your life will greatly improve.
Never allow yourself to become too lazy.
I know it can feel so good to sit on the couch for long hours and do nothing but watch TV. Yes we need our rest, but it is so important to keep our minds and/or bodies stimulated in order for us to stay in our purpose P- (passion-stay doing what your passionate about) U-(Stay in unity with others who share your passions) R-(Stay responsible) P.-(Keep thinking and speaking Positive, Empowering Thoughts) O-(Others-always look for ways to benefit others) S-(Do excerscises/activities to help Your Self) E-(Everyday- Keep practicing these principles everyday).
I gaurantee that if you work on not allowing yourself to become lazy and apply these principles of P-U-R-P-O-S-E, your life will greatly improve.
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